Let go of opinions

Written By Dino Gomez

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It’s time to let go of other people’s opinion of you. That’s what we’re talking about today. This is a big topic. This is something that you are probably feeling or thinking on a consistent basis. Oh, my gosh. What will that other person think? Friends, family members, clients, prospects, people that don’t know me. What will they think if I post this, if I do this, if they see me on video talking about this? So let’s talk about that. Let’s dive in today.


Hey, you guys, Dino Gomez here and you are listening to the Secrets of Coaching podcast, where we break down the nuances of growing a seven figure online coaching business. And we are about to get started in 3 2 1.


All right, guys, welcome back to another podcast episode for you. Today, we’re going to be talking about letting go of the opinion of others, which is one of the toughest things to do. This is something I think about. I try not to think about this. I try not to have this impact me, affect me on a daily or weekly basis. But naturally, I guess I fall into the category of empathic. So I do think about, how is this going to affect other people? Will this make somebody feel less than they are? If I talk about how well our clients are doing, is that going to make somebody else who’s not doing as well feel a certain way? Naturally, that’s kind of my personality type, so I’ve had to work really hard to kind of eliminate that and mitigate that. And so the challenge I want to propose to you today, right, a little mini task, something that can just completely change your energy and your flow for the day, is do this for a 24 hours period. Try not to let the opinion of other people dictate what you actually do say and how you live.


Try it out. Try it on for 24 hours. See how it feels. What does your day look like if you removed everybody and just did what you wanted to do, per se, and say what you wanted to say, per se. See how that feels. Try that look on. Walk around in it for a little bit. Start with 24 hours. All right? That is something that we can massively increase. Your engagement, your reach, your connection, that you have trust you have with prospects is speaking your truth, because nobody is like you, right? So your opinions, your thoughts, how you’re feeling, all those types of things, your emotions, those belong to you, and nobody can copy that. And so if you’re looking for one of the fastest and easiest ways to stand out from your competition, it is by speaking your truth, which is very difficult to do. So one of the top ten dying regrets when people have just a limited, finite amount of time to live and they actually hear that, like, hey, you only have a month left, is at that point in time, right? They say, I wish I would have spent less time in my life caring and or worrying about what other people think, because life is short, and ultimately, none of us are royalty, so it’s not like our names are going down in history books, so we all will be forgotten beyond immediate friends and family.


So when you look at the big picture, really what we’re doing on a day to day basis doesn’t in the scheme of things, if we zoom out and look at life on Earth, so to speak, in 5000, 10,000 year increment, what we do doesn’t really matter. So you might as well be yourself, have as much fun as possible, grow your business, say the things that you want to do, work with, the types of clients you want to work with, and the space you want to work. You might as well do things the way that you want to do them. As long as it is helping others, you might as well do it like that, because that’s the winning formula, right? It’s for you to be 100% fulfilled in your business and to have a profitable business doing it your way. So I’m giving you guys permission. Try it on for 24 hours. Let go of what other people think, see how it feels, strut around in it, and notice what kind of difference it makes for your energy level, for your creativity, and for the possibilities it opens up for you inside of your business.


All right, let’s go.


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